A Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) is often assigned to siblings. It can be fair, and it can diffuse the responsibility. Things go smoothly, provided it is set up in such a way that there are no delays. For advice on Power of Attorney Hertfordshire, visit beesandco.com/our-services/power-of-attorney/hertfordshire/

The big decision: how they react

If you name more than one attorney, as a rule of thumb, the most common types that will usually be selected include:

As one, ideally, they work in tandem for every decision.

Joint and several: this means that they can all act together or just one of them alone.

Here’s where jointly can sound so safe, but also it’s where nothing moves because one sibling is away or unwell, and/or avoids conflict which results in forever deadlock.

Pros of appointing siblings

Sharing the load (particularly around finances and admin)

Checks and balances (less chance of misuse)

Families being more open (fewer “Why didn’t you tell me?” moments)

Cons to watch for

Where to care, what to spend, and when to sell – views differ

Waiting for everyone to sign makes processes slower

When the going gets tough, old family dynamics surface.

How to avoid deadlock

A few practical safeguards:

Jointly and severally for day-to-day decisions.

Add a backup lawyer when one is unable to act.

Use of preferences to help in more difficult areas (choice of care home, informing family)

Discuss it beforehand: Who does what, and how you will communicate.

Be careful of conflict; get appropriate advice before submitting. The right structure can enable fairness and effectiveness, where it counts the most.